I’m an incredibly positive person. Sex positive, fat positive, queer positive, kink positive. I rally a lot of causes where others might be inclined to sneer, judge or deem it unacceptable.
I’ll tell you a secret. You are doomed to repeat what you condemn so basically all those sneering dopes…
it is not my fucking problem if you cannot afford my services. i don’t care about your problems.
…like seriously? I’m barely organized enough to schedule my own appointments, why do they think I want to play secretary for them? Also when I’m SO stringent about remaining on the legal side of the fence do they assume that’s okay (or that they’d make a buck)
So you’re on Twitter, or CollarMe, or FetLife, or whatever. You’re just looking around, browsing through profiles, and all of a sudden, you find Her. The most beautiful domme you’ve ever seen. You would give ANYTHING to be Her slave, ANYTHING to serve Her, if only for a few minutes.
However,…
Sex workers don’t “sell their bodies” any more than masseuses “sell their hands.” They are paid for a service they provide, not for ownership of their bodies.
“Sex work” is a blanket term that includes a lot of nuanced cases, both consensual and non-consensual. However, in both cases, saying sex workers “sell their bodies” is objectifying and unproductive.
Funny how a disproportionate amount of abusive messages I receive are from dominant males. WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT?
Potential client just asked if I did hhr
I have no earthly clue what that is, but I probably charge more for it.
Today we have a client coming in who is spending 7 hours total at the dungeon. He has devised something called the “Dominatrix Olympics” and I have been selected to compete in it!
The events available for competing are:
- Most degrading humiliation
- Sexist / Sultriest outfit
- Most extreme…